Birth Search & Reunion Narratives

How Meeting the Jeons Has Changed My Life
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How Meeting the Jeons Has Changed My Life

Written from the perspective of an adoptee spouse, this heartfelt reflection explores the transformative experience of meeting Whitney’s Korean birth family. Through conversations, shared memories, and time spent together in South Korea, the author gains a deeper understanding of adoption, family separation, reunion, and belonging. The essay highlights how connections formed through adoption can profoundly shape identity, healing, and one’s sense of family.

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On Searching for Birth Family and Self - With Katie Betancourt
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On Searching for Birth Family and Self - With Katie Betancourt

In this candid conversation, Colombian adoptee and advocate Katie Betancourt shares her decades-long journey of searching for her birth family, navigating identity, and supporting fellow adoptees through reunion and discovery. Drawing from her personal experiences and extensive work within the Colombian adoptee community, Katie reflects on adoption, cultural identity, loss, healing, and the realities of birth-family searches, offering insight, compassion, and hope for adoptees and their families.

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Omoni, by Hillary Rankin
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Omoni, by Hillary Rankin

In this heartfelt reflection, adoptee Hillary Rankin writes an open letter to her birth mother, Omoni, on her birthday. With gratitude, compassion, and honesty, Hillary shares how adoption has shaped her life—not through a sense of loss or incompleteness, but through an enduring appreciation for the woman who gave her life and opportunities she may not otherwise have had.

Her story offers a powerful perspective on adoption, highlighting the complexity of adoptee experiences while celebrating love, identity, and the desire to honor one's story, whether reunion occurs or not.

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